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clannyphantom:

"maybe you wouldnt be so tired if you went to bed earl-"

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Anonymous asked:
Hello it's miss "I look like I'm good in bed ...apparently" from a last week. Firstly, thank you so much for your response. It was spot on,though I bare no resemblance to the references you made l have come to terms with the label to a certain degree. I have to say one of my biggest concerns is really that the "look like you are good in bed" isn't that a veiled way of saying "you look promiscuous"?

I’ve read Em’s response. I understand where you’re coming from in how it is difficult in terms of figuring out how to recieve that kind of comment. I think the way to tell the difference between it being complimentary versus accusatory is based on tone and delivery. If they are saying “You look like you’re good in bed, like you have a lot of experience.” that would be more along the lines of them making it known that in their opinion you look promiscuous. Rather than “You look like you’re good in bed, and I’d really like to find out just how good.” which is more of a very forward compliment. This is hard to explain in writing, it’s difficult to convey tone. The best way to follow up and find out what they mean by it/their intentions is by responding “What do you mean by that?”

Hopefully they will be willing to clarify and then you’ll have a better idea on their stance. 

Often times (as Em was trying to explain) based upon a person’s presence, especially confident people, other’s then interpret it as & make the assumption that a person is confident in all aspects of life. One of those aspects being sexual relationships. That this person must not have any fear in the bedroom. That they are self assured they are “good in bed” and can deliver a satisfying amount of pleasure no matter who their partner is. 

Does that make more sense? 

I think no matter what, if someone says that to you, you should follow up with the question I mentioned above asking them to further explain themselves. If they choose not to, you can say that you would appreciate if they exercised some discretion and respected that your sex life is your own business and none of their’s….as of yet.

~ Va-J-J

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The actress weighs in on the evolution of Paige.

“My teenage son just came out to me. As a devout Christian, I believe that marriage is between a man and a woman. What will his future be like? Is he truly a sinner in God’s eyes?”
“My teenage son just came out to me. As a devout Christian, I believe that marriage is between a man and a woman. What will his future be like? Is he truly a sinner in God’s eyes?”

parentsproject:

- Question submitted Anonymously and Answered by Broderick Greer

Broderick Says:

Dear Devout Christian,

Your scenario and question embody the uncomfortable corner many conservative Christians find themselves in today: a theology of human sexuality that doesn’t match their lived…

  • Ignorant Asshole: I hate fags. Being gay is unnatural. It goes against God!
  • Me: GOD DESIGNED MEN WITH THEIR BIGGEST PLEASURE CENTRE IN THEIR ASSHOLES. GOD LITERALLY DESIGNED YOU TO GET FUCKED IN THE ASS IF YOU WANT TO FEEL REALLY GOOD. YOU FUCKWAD.
  • Ignorant Asshole: ......... *walks away*